Identity - How To Use It To Create Change
Our identity is formed by characteristics we have no control over, gender, race, and economic class. It also includes our opinions, moral code and beliefs. Our identity is a combination of memories, values, experiences and relationships. The teenage years are about developing our identity, which is why it is such a tumultuous time. When we move to adulthood, while more stable, we continue to evolve.
Change impacting our sense of self can cause an identity crisis.
A crisis can occur when we are met with the challenge of changing career, divorce or gender roles. An event brings to your attention your that beliefs have changed, or you recognise decisions have been made based on others expectations. It’s at this point you decide to make changes and do some self-evaluation.
Changing career is not something which can be done lightly. There are various reasons this may occur, the role no longer exists, family commitments, and change in values and interests. Whatever the reason, it takes time to make the change, and you may not be able to go back to the level of income you had before. Training may be involved, which could take weeks, months and years. A support system based on family and friends will be vital.
Divorce is a shock to the system, even when you instigated it. There are a lot of changes which…
